Category: Family & Friends

  • The serendipity of RSS

    My news reader is filled with a variety of feeds: technology news, culture, wine reviews, blogs of interesting people, shopping…it’s all over the place. I choose to populate it wildly because it is an easy way to broaden my knowledge of the world. It also surfaces quirky items that I’d never otherwise learn about.

    Like the story of the hunt for the Death Valley Germans.

    The Death Valley Germans (as dubbed by the media) were a family of four tourists from Germany who went missing in Death Valley National Park, on the California–Nevada border, in the United States, on 23 July 1996.[1] Despite an intense search and rescue operation, no trace of the family was discovered and the search was called off. In 2009, the remains of the two adult members of the family were discovered by experienced hikers, Les Walker and Tom Mahood, who were carefully searching a remote area for evidence of the fate of the tourists, and conclusive proof of the fate of the male adult was later established.

    (Source: Wikipedia)

    My dad lived in Germany. His dad was a Lieutenant Colonel in the U.S. Army. They lived in Kaiserslautern from 1949-1951 and again from 1960-1962. I’ve been to Death Valley. Years ago, I spent a day climbing the dunes of Mesquite Flat in Death Valley National Park while on a photo assignment for PayPal to create images for a solo exhibit at one of the company’s VIP customer events (I was, inexplicably, on the same agenda as NASCAR driver Jeff Gordon and Boston Philharmonic conductor Benjamin Zander).

    The story was glücklicher Zufall (that’s Google German for serendipity).

    Well, serendipity-lite. It became full-blown serendipity when I read this part of the story about the Death Valley Germans:

    “Post-trip examination of the symbols and markings on the bottom of the bottle showed that it was manufactured by the Thatcher Manufacturing Company. The company ceased operations in 1985, thus the bottle had to be older than 1985.”

    Not only did this story include a connection to my family’s German history, not only did it include a connection to a place I once stood, but then it decides to throw in a reference to the glass manufacturer where my dad spent a good part of his working years.

    Hello, Hollywood, have I got a story for you. No, seriously. It almost writes itself.

    The Lost Germans

    Follow the story of Ethan Bauer, a talented magazine photojournalist who’s always on the hunt for the next big story. But when he stumbles upon the tale of the Death Valley Germans, a family of tourists who went missing in 1996, he never could have imagined the journey he was about to embark on.

    As Ethan delves deeper into the story, he realizes that there’s a surprising connection to his own family’s past — a past that began in the aftermath of World War II, where his grandfather navigated the complex political landscape of post-war Germany, to the height of the Cold War, where his father grew up on one of the most strategic military outposts in Europe, and 2018, when Ethan stood on Death Valley’s dunes during a corporate assignment.

    Ethan immerses himself in the hunt for the Death Valley Germans, driven by a deeper sense of purpose, but the closer he gets to the truth, the more it seems that fate has a role to play in the journey. Through a series of serendipitous events, Ethan discovers a shocking connection between the missing tourists and his own family’s past, one that forces him to confront a web of secrets and lies.

    As Ethan connects the dots, he uncovers the truth about the glass manufacturer where his father spent many years of his working life, and the unexpected connection it holds to the missing tourists.

    With stunning visuals and an emotional storyline, “The Lost Germans” takes you on a journey of discovery and connects you with the power of serendipity. The film shows how a series of seemingly unrelated events can come together in the most unexpected ways and how, sometimes, the things that are meant to be, will find a way.

    Danke und gute nacht.

  • Keeping a New Year’s Day tradition alive

    When we moved into our house twenty years ago, we moved into a tight-knit neighborhood. Friday nights meant poker games. Halloween meant Liqu-‘or-Treat with bespoke cocktails at the end of each driveway for the adults. Over the years, what began as impromptu gatherings became traditions.

    One of those traditions originated in St. Louis long before any of us opened the doors into our homes for the first time. For it was in St. Louis, that Bill and Janie Swenson first invited their neighbors to an open house brunch every January 1st to kick off the new year. We’d all straggle in throughout the day, timing often dictated by the intensity of the previous night’s festivities.

    Inside, Bill worked the pan and spatula like a world class line cook making fried rice omelettes. Sesame oil and “Happy New Year” filled the air. A Bloody Caesar appeared in your hand. “Who’s next?” Bill shouts over the hum. And repeat…70 times.

    Bill and Janie moved south, extending the tradition to their new neighborhood, leaving a New Year’s Day void in ours. But traditions are traditions for a reason. They are meant to be carried on, torches passed. Such was New Year’s Day 2023 when Jenn and I raised our hands (or forgot to duck) when that void needed to be filled. We tiptoed in with a deliberately small gathering. Only a fool would cannonball into the deep end of trying to tackle a 70 omelet production line on their first go.

    We hit 18 omelettes. I’m confident we’ll work up to a Swenson’esque 70 over the next two decades.

  • Bald Guys on Bikes: Episode 1 with Chris Meacham

    A wise friend once imparted advice that has stuck with me: “Just say yes.”

    I’ve done my best to live by that rule. It’s given me the opportunity to do and experience amazing things, and — since my friends have a habit of concocting some outrageously questionable ideas — it’s also given me the opportunity to do some really dumb things.

    Case in point: My friend Brian, who owns a bike shop and has encyclopedic knowledge of bike history, shoots me a text and suggests the two of us host an interview series with pro cyclists, bike industry reps, the mechanics who make the wheels go round, and various other members of the cycling community.

    Brian, I should point out, is one of those forces of nature that Makes Things Happen™. Start a bike shop in a small, southestern Pennsylvania town? Why not? Create and then direct a professional bike racing team? Go ahead. Open a second bike shop in the middle of a pandemic? Of course. Produce a documentary film that followed the journey of a local racer (and friend) diagnosed with brain cancer who endured life-saving surgeries to further endure and finish a legendary mountain bike race in Leadville, Colorado? Sure.

    As you can imagine, saying no or I’ll think about it was not exactly an option.

    So what do two follicly-challenged, lantern-rouge-carrying ham-and-eggers like us do? We reach out to the fine folks at GoPro who set us up with a Hero10 camera and creator kit, and ask our friend Andy Jarin and his crew at B&B Beverages in Doylestown, Pennsylvania, to hook us up with cans of liquid gold. Then we put the GoPro on a tripod, cracked open the craft, and started inviting folks to join us in fun conversation.

    The first episode of “Bald Guys on Bikes” went live this week. Brian and I suckered in, I mean, sat down with Bike Works p/b Fred Beans elite athlete and BMC Ride Crew ambassador Chris Meacham to talk about racing the Leadville 100, hitting the gravel from atop his BMC URS LT One bike, a way cool company called Moosepacks, and the insanity of riding Pennyfarthings.

    More episodes to come, so hit that subscribe button as the cool kids say.

  • Ho, ho, ho

    Ho, ho, ho

    One of the greatest joys in life is bringing joy to other people’s lives…like my uncle Bill does as Santa (caught a glimpse of him in this news segment).

  • The Work We Do, The Lives We Live

    The Work We Do, The Lives We Live

    My daughter was a Dr. Who fan. One day she said, “Dad, you need to watch this episode.” What unfolded on the screen — three and a half minutes of thespian magic — is, perhaps, the most emotion-inducing scene in television history. Even more emotional than the finale to MASH. It’s a gut-punching reminder that the lives we live matter, even if we think they don’t.

  • Observations and Tips from a First Time Cruiser

    Four passengers set sail that day for a seven day tour…okay, so my 1970s TV show theme rhyming isn’t quite laureate-worthy. But my recollection of my first cruise this past week and the tips and observations I’m about to impart on you, oh wayward blog visitor, are worth continuing.

    The inaugural cruise occurred on the Disney Magic, sailing out of Florida’s Port Canaveral with scheduled stops in St. Maarten, St. Thomas and Disney’s private island in the Abaco’s, Castaway Cay.

    The highlight of the trip was supposed to be Castaway Cay, however, two unexpected emergency stops to drop off passengers in need of immediate medical assistance and some equally unexpected rough weather kept us from the island. Bummer indeed. It may be the only real area where Disney’s impeccable customer service fell short over the entire week.

    If there’s a book on the connection between service and brand, Disney is the only company worth studying. What should be a stressful vacation – close quarters, children, and did I mention close quarters and children? – is anything but. From the first step onto the dock to the last step back onto solid ground, Disney’s cast members not only took care of every single thing, but 99% of the time anticipated it. For example, the waiters grabbed knife and fork and cut up the kids’ dishes every evening so parents could enjoy their meals…and in the case of Tomislav and Lewellen (the dining team with us every breakfast and dinner) they actually fed them their first bite. You will not find a better crew dedicated to making your cruise as perfect as possible. On that, I put my word.

    Below, for the benefit of the few readers I have and the almighty Google, are my random observations and tips from a virgin cruiser:

    Plan early, plan often. My wife started the booking process at least a year in advance, giving us the opportunity to score an outside room with a veranda. There’s nothing like waking up each morning to sun and sea (or the occasional island), nor nothing like soaking in a sea of stars unimpeded by city lights.

    Exercise early, exercise often. You might as well start putting calories in the bank when you start the booking process. You will eat, you will drink…you will pack on pounds.

    Food and drink. I expected high gourmet vittles based on the reports I heard from more seasoned cruisers (and by more seasoned I mean those who had gone on at least one cruise). The food was good, but the foodie in me had higher expectations. Not Le Cirque, but not Cancun all-inclusive either. One of the things I enjoyed was the constant changing of menus between restaurants. Definitely an opportunity to try new dishes. Drinks were drinks. That said, I was pleasantly surprised at the quality of the wine lists at dinner. Good grapes and not overly marked up (seemed to me like roughly 2x).

    Entertainment. I’m told other cruises entertain guests with fairly campy shows (although I did hear rumor that one of the other ships in the harbor at St. Thomas had Cirque du Soleil and Blue Man Group on it). On the Magic, we had a different Broadway-level original show each night, plus very funny comedians and other performers. I thought it would get stale, but the entertainment was, well, entertaining.

    Excursions. We booked two: a beach day on St. Maarten and a snorkeling catamaran cruise on St. John. I hate feeling like a tourist when I travel, so I’d book separately on a future cruise. That said, the excursions were well managed and painless (and the crew of the Jolly Mon catamaran was a blast).

    We’ve booked our second cruise for 2013 already, so, to wrap up, yes, I’d go again (this from someone who steadfastly fought going on a cruise for years). I no longer think of a cruise as a floating hotel; they are more like floating resorts. I’d go with my expectations in check about the food and wearing the Scarlet T every time I stepped off the boat. And I’d exercise more. A lot more.

  • Back on the road

    Crossing the Line in the 1600m It’s been quite a few years since I’ve gone out for a proper run. This morning, after resting up from a weeklong trip to Barcelona for Mobile World Congress, I decided to see if the running jones was still coursing through my slow twitch muscle fibers. It was. Granted, the distance was short (3.5 miles) and the time was slow (acceptable for a marathon; unacceptable for a 5k), but muscles have memory and mine remembered what it was like 20 years ago to run competitively for the Trenton State College varsity cross country team.
    (Photo: Me crossing the line; high school 1600m)